No, she isn't ugly, She is beautiful. Just because you chose not to see the beauty in someone, it doesn't make them ugly. You have no right to call a girl ugly. You don't know how much that can scar thier self esteem. She has just as many feelings as you do. Just because someone can call you ugly and you take it as a joke, doesn't mean she can. She is beautiful in every way. If you believe that you have no right to call a girl ugly. I'm sorry.